FAQs

Answers to common questions

Q: What is the Divorce or Dissolution Process?

Whether you decide to litigate your divorce, mediate the issues, submit to arbitration or use the collaborative process, certain aspects of your divorce will always be the same.

Each method requires a party to file a complaint for divorce or dissolution with the Court. If the parties have utilized mediation, arbitration or the collaborative process they have already come to a final resolution as to all issues which has been memorialized in a Marital Settlement or other Agreement. This Agreement is submitted with the Complaint and placed on the record before a Judge. The Judge then grants the parties a Judgment of Divorce, Dissolution of Civil Union, or Domestic Partnership under the terms of the Marital Settlement or other Agreement.

If the parties have decided to litigate their case, the process is much different. Once a Complaint has been filed with the Court, the other party must file an Answer and may also file a Counterclaim for Divorce or Dissolution. If there are children, in most cases the parties must then attend parenting class and free Custody Mediation scheduled by the Court in an attempt to resolve issues of child custody and parenting time.

From there, the parties exchange discovery, which can be expected to include all information regarding the financial aspects of the marriage and generally for a Civil Union or Domestic Partnership. An Early Settlement Panel (ESP) is then scheduled by the Court. ESP is a settlement tool wherein both parties and their attorneys present their case to a panel of two neutral family law attorneys who will provide guidance and suggestions as to how to settle the case.

If the case does not settle at ESP, the Court schedules the parties for Economic Mediation, where the parties meet with a mediator to attempt to settle the financial aspects of their case (alimony, child support and the distribution of assets). If this does not result in a settlement, the parties and their attorneys go before the Judge for an Intensive Settlement Conference as a final attempt for the parties to resolve the issues in their divorce themselves.

The matter is then listed for trial before the Judge who, after hearing testimony and examining all the evidence of the case, will decide any disputed issue of the divorce. The Judge will then render a Final Judgment of Divorce, legally divorcing the parties and adjudicating all issues involving custody and parenting time, alimony, equitable distribution, and child support. Trials may be spread out over weeks or months.

Maleski Eisenhut & Zielinski, LLC specializes in family law. Our firm will work with you to formulate goals, and then help you navigate the divorce process to achieve them. With our experience and dedication, we strive to obtain the best result for our clients. Contact us online or call 908-237-9711.


Q: How long does a Divorce or Dissolution take?

People contemplating a divorce are concerned about how long the process takes. The length of the time it takes to get a divorce is usually dependent on the following:

The Process. There are different processes. Parties can choose from mediation, arbitration, collaboration and litigation. Collaboration is oftentimes quicker and less costly than litigation

Experts. Parties may disagree on the value of a home, a pension, a business, a parties' employability or who should have physical custody of their children. In these situations, parties may employ experts to assist in the divorce process. These experts produce evaluations or reports, which take time to produce and finalize.

The Parties. During the divorce process, the parties themselves play a role in the process depending on their abilities to focus on issues, cooperate and compromise.

The Length of Marriage. Typically, a couple who are married for a few years have less marital property and history than a couple who have been married for many years. Often times, personal history and the size of the marital estate can contribute to the length of time it takes to finalize a divorce.


Q: What are the costs associated with a Divorce or Dissolution?

Much like the length of time it takes to get a divorce, the cost of obtaining a divorce can vary substantially given the facts of each case, the relative positions of the parties, the parties willingness to compromise, and their commitment to settle.

Initially, the courts charge a filing fee of $275 ($300 in cases involving children). 

If the parties decide to mediate their case, they hire a mediator to help them resolve their issues associated with the divorce or dissolution.  Each party should hire an attorney to educate and assist them and to review the agreement before submitting it to the court.  The costs involved depend on the number of mediation sessions required to settle the case.

In the Collaborative Process the parties may want to bring in a divorce coach or a financial expert to help settle the case.  These experts are optional, but can be very useful in ultimately resolving the case.  The costs for the Collaborative process hinge on the experts needed, and the number of sessions required before an agreement is reached.

In the context of litigation, given the specific issues and needs of your case experts may be required to: render decisions regarding custody and the best interest of children, to value property, to determine the income of a party, to value a business or other major asset, to render an alcoholism or drug evaluation or to determine a party's employability and earning potential, based on their background and education. 

Beyond the cost of experts, the primary factor affecting the cost of a litigated divorce is the length of time the case requires, and if the matter needs to go to trial. 

The attorneys at Maleski Eisenhut & Zielinski, LLC are happy to discuss with you all the options and their associated costs.  Since each case presents its own unique facts and issues, our experienced team can evaluate your case and recommend steps you can take to reduce costs.  Contact us online or call 908-237-9711.


Q: What if I have a civil claim against my spouse?

If you believe you have a claim against your spouse for damages, pursuant to the case of “Tevis v. Tevis” those claims must be filed as part of the divorce complaint.  These claims may be assault, conversion (theft), battery, fraud or any other civil claim outside of Family Law.  If these "Tevis" claims do not settle as part of the Family Law action, the Court will bifurcate (separate) the civil case and the civil claims will be handled in the Civil Part, which has its own specific rules and procedures.

Given the potential complexity of some civil claims, a litigant should strongly consider an attorney with experience.  The attorneys at Maleski Eisenhut & Zielinski, LLC are familiar with these processes and are prepared to help you.


Q: Who gets the House in a Divorce?

Who retains the marital home as part of the divorce depends on each spouses' financial positions, which includes a consideration of any child support and alimony/spousal support, the division of any other assets of the marriage, the children's enrollment at school and a number of other facts under the Equitable Distribution statute. 

The answer to this question depends on the particular circumstances of your case and you should consult with an attorney on this issue.


Q: Should I move out before a divorce?

This is a very difficult question and requires a fact specific analysis. The response will consider the relationship between the parties, their children, and current communication and relations at home.  It will also depend on the family finances and the financial ability to live apart. Often times, children are the most important factor when deciding whether to remain in the marital home or move to a separate residence. Parties should strongly consider having an agreement in place, even on a temporary basis, on these issues prior to leaving the home.


Q: What is a cost-benefit analysis?

The cost-benefit analysis reviews the costs of proceeding in litigation versus arbitration, mediation or collaboratively as well as the relative positions taken on each issue. These considerations are weighed against the potential outcome and costs of each approach and position.  Thevariety of approaches and positions in a divorce require a discussion with an experienced attorney so that you understand the risks and benefits of each.


Q: What is legal separation?

There is no "legal separation" in New Jersey. In order for you legally to establish that the marriage is no longer viable, you must file a complaint for divorce and begin the divorce process. Sometimes spouses will move out and begin residing separately. In New Jersey, this is not a recognizable "end of the marriage" date. Separation may have serious implications on issues of custody, parenting time, alimony/spousal support and equitable division of assets. The professionals at Maleski Eisenhut & Zielinski, LLC can discuss this in more detail and offer viable options if you are seeking to reside apart from your spouse.


Q: What are statutory factors?

In New Jersey, state statutes set forth the general law on issues such as custody and parenting time, alimony, child support, college expenses and equitable distribution. In family law, often times, the statues relating to each of those issues, set forth a number of elements which are to be considered and weighed when deciding, for example, the amount and length of alimony, if any. These are referred to as "statutory factors."

Over time, and due to the highly fact specific nature of family law, litigated cases have resulted in opinions ( "case law") that explain and clarify the meaning of the statutes and factors within them. The professionals at Maleski Eisenhut & Zielinski, LLC can explain to you the most recent developments in case law and can provide a thorough analysis of the factors as they relate to your circumstances.


Q: What to do if you are in an abusive relationship?

If you are in an abusive relationship, you should immediately seek out the assistance of qualified professionals. These include organizations for support of abused and battered spouses. In the Hunterdon County area, SAFE is one such organization. The professionals there are knowledgeable in the area of domestic violence and abuse and have the tools and information, as well as counseling services, to aid abused spouses. You should also immediately consult with an attorney and educate yourself about your options for seeking protective orders to ensure your safety and well-being.